High time to Stop Bothering and Start Living

We are all a part of the busy lives in this modern world. Are you all happy and cheerful this new year? Is everything fine? Well, for most of us, some bits of life are going very well, but on the other hand, there is something that is not. It’s the new year, and we await things to get better. We actually hope for the good things to happen every year. We make resolutions to stay happy, progress in our lives and do good. What stops then? At times, it’s majorly the people. At times, you are surrounded by people who are negative influencers. Even if not, their success keeps pinching us. And if not even that, we might seeking attention from someone who might be busy or wants to stay off.

One has to, however, understand, the only measure to succeeding without anyone obstructing in our lives is to stop bothering.

  • It’s time to stop bothering what people think of you;
  • It’s time to stop bothering why your friends are succeeding, but you aren’t;
  • It’s time to stop bothering if the other person is giving you enough attention or not;
  • It’s time to stop bothering what people tell you when are yourself not convinced;
  • It’s time to stop bothering what the world is doing.

And now you are all set to get to the top. Let’s find out how each of these success factors work!

What are people thinking of you

How does it matter what people think of you when you are happy doing what you do. Parents worry for their kids; they actually don’t. Instead, they consider what will the society think of their kids. They tend to take actions accordingly.

A girl who does not like to dress up thinks what will the community say if she does not wear jeans but lingers in her pyjamas and shorts. But is that all so necessary to worry? No, it not. On the contrary, the more you think, the more it will affect your productivity and success. Instead, think of what you want to do and go ahead. And you’ll make a beautiful 2018!

It’s time to stop bothering why your friends are succeeding but you aren’t

There’s no point thinking about others succeeding and you not. Yes, you should learn from them, but there shouldn’t be the jealousy factors. The jealousy, will not ruin them but will destroy you. Learn from the successful people in the world, and focus on implementing the right things that would work for your success. And that’s how you will reach there. Envying people, your friends, family, will only spoil your relationships and get you nowhere near to your destination.

It’s time to stop bothering if the other person is giving you enough attention or not

This is generally when you want to gain attention from your loved ones, but they aren’t there for you. Be it a relationship of a parent and a child, a boy and a girl or anyone else, the more you keep thinking of your loved ones and expect them to give you extra attention, farther would the situation keep irritating you. Love your kids to an extent, because it’s important to provide them with space too. Relationships expect a lot of attention, but what happens when one of them is sad just because he/she feels neglected? It ruins their happiness. The person isn’t able to concentrate on his/her work. Moreover, such situation emerges a factor of irritation. But how to evade such constant demand for attention? Stop bothering, that’s the sole solution!

It’s time to stop bothering what people tell you, when you aren’t convinced

At times when we meet people and tell them something ourselves, they start criticising it. Is criticism bad? No, it’s not. In fact, criticism can be a positive path to your success. But getting affected by the criticism is the best thing you can do to ruin your progress. At times, people start telling you negative stuff that might be associated with you and sometimes even not. It’s good to listen but never bother it beyond the required limit. Something that does not convinces you are meant to be ignored. You should be confident enough to respond back with a practical solution for yourself. You should be sure of yourself taking the right path in your life. The world does not matter then.

It’s time to stop bothering what the world is doing.

This is again a big deal with people nowadays. One needs to understand that in order to work on your productivity, it is your hard work that matters and not someone else’s. Never get affected if people do not share about themselves with you. A general tradition that follows is about being superstitious where people do not like to speak about their success. It’s okay if they don’t. It shouldn’t matter to you at all. If it does matter, then you will end up spending a lot of time thinking about the same. Does that count to your productivity? No, it never does. Why not start this year without bothering what people have to say and what not. Take in the positive aspects and leave the negative ones behind.

Final Words

We have a solution to the problem now! Let’s take a resolution this year together. Nothing and no one can affect you or your mood. It is solely you who controls it. Stop bothering and start living. Let this be the mantra of 2018. Its high time to start living a happy and a joyful life. I wish you all a great year ahead! Happy New Year 2018!

 

 

 

 

 

About Preirna Prachi

Preirna Prachi is a passionate writer. Mad about her dream to be an entrepreneur very soon, she looks forward to raising her own firm. Ever-ready to tap her feet on the floor, she loves partying. She is a table tennis enthusiast. She is a coffee person and loves spending time with her family and friends. You can contact her for writing assignments or Guest blogging through our contact form.

16 comments

  1. I agree but sometimes it takes really a lot effort to stop bothering, especially if it’s something that’s been bothering you for years. I’ll keep these in mind during 2018! 🙂

    Tadeja

  2. Great insight! It’s true and totally agree, you shouldn’t mind what others are thinking or saying about you as long as you’re doing things that aren’t legal, unethical or morally wrong. What’s important is that you’re happy. Thanks for sharing this, keep it up!

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  3. Great insight! It’s true and totally agree, you shouldn’t mind what others are thinking or saying about you as long as you’re doing things that aren’t illegal*, unethical or morally wrong. What’s important is that you’re happy. Thanks for sharing this, keep it up!

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  4. Great theme in this post and i think a very important one, when we focus on ourselves than what other people think or are doing – stop comparing , then we can put all the energy in our lives. Thanks for sharing!

  5. So true, it’s easy to lose focus and concern yourself more about what other have and you want rather than appreciating what you have in your life right now. Great post 🙂

  6. I totally agree with what you’ve written here, its the only way to find true happiness and success in life. I think we all just need to introspect more.

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